Everything You Need To Know About Your Couples Therapy Journey
We’re here to help you heal your marriage and create a happy and healthy home…
Online Couples Therapy with Marriage Experts
Hi! We are Nancy and Brian - The Golden Marriage Tour Guides
We’re delighted to meet you!
Hi, we’re Nancy & Brian Hoa - The Marriage Tour Guides
We did not have a fairy tale marriage for most of our 23 years together. We fought hard and we fought often. Several of our fights ended in tears and threats of divorce. We had traumatic incidents that almost ended all hope of marriage survival.
But our children kept our hope and faith alive.
It was because of them that we found a much simpler path of saving our marriage that didn’t involve years of couples therapy.
Things were rocky for a while for us, but we know if we could recover and still build a dream life for our family, we know we can help you too!
Happy & Healthy Marriage = Happy & Healthy Family
Eight years ago, we moved from a small suburban home to a big country farmhouse on the Niagara Escarpment because we saw how city life was contributing to the stresses in our marriage.
When we reflected on how we were able to create a golden marriage and family, we realized that our kids were our inspiration. Nyla and Wesley deserve to be raised in a loving environment with loving parents who are genuinely and happily in love.
We prioritized our marriage and we recognized that our relationship was the foundation for a happy home. Once we figured out a simple process of healing and transforming our marriage, we began sharing it with our clients. We are very passionate about helping couples heal and transform their marriages.
We believe that when you learn how to create a beautiful bond, you create a better world for your children.
Our couples therapy program is unique because you have a successful, happily married, golden couple leading the way for other couples.
Think of us as guides to your journey of claiming a Golden Marriage Mountain. You're in unchartered territory. You are lost, confused, and frustrated.
Knowing that there are two guides, one for the wives, and one for the husbands, brings you peace - because we know that men and women have different needs.
Perhaps one of you wants to start the journey first. That's totally fine. You can't and shouldn't force someone to do something they aren't ready for yet. When you start climbing the mountain and start feeling better and more confident in your progress, we'll go to the base of the mountain and guide your partner whenever it's time to do so.
With us, you get an honest and holistic approach to reaching your marriage goals.
We prioritize...
✅ Progress over perfection
✅ What's best for the health of the marriage
✅ The future over the past
Ultimately, what makes our program superior to any other couples therapy program is our simple, 3-step journey that addresses the root of the problems. You can learn more about our breakthrough discoveries and the science-based approach we have in the free online masterclass.
Online Couples Therapy:
Is it right for your marriage?
Here’s how to tell if online couples therapy can save your marriage:
If ONE of you is NOT happy or fulfilled in your marriage, it’s time to consider getting the right help from the right couples therapist for you.
When one partner is unhappy, your marriage is in trouble and your bond is compromised. It will be challenging, if not impossible, to figure out how to make your marriage work on your own, especially if the other partner is unaware of the unhappiness.
Book A FREE Marriage Breakthrough Call to help determine the next best step for you, if one of you feels unhappy…
When is the right time to get help from a couples therapist?
Working with the right online couples therapist will help you save lots of time.
Now is the best time if you are open to getting marriage help. The best time was 5 years ago. The next best time is now. Don’t risk your marriage unraveling even more to see what is your next best step in transforming your marriage.
A successful marriage is the goal of couples therapy…
The Successful Golden Marriage Is Happy & Healthy
A golden marriage is created when two people in love have mutual respect, admiration, and adoration for each other.
They have a healthy attachment, much like two vines that are intricately intertwined, and can lean on each other for support and understanding. They enjoy spending time together but also appreciate space to miss and desire each other.
Their bond is strong and can survive any crisis that comes their way.
They are healthier, happier, and more peaceful.
How do you choose the right couples therapist for you?
Not all married couples are created equal. And neither are their couples therapists.
Get to know your couples therapist first.
Take their Masterclass. Read their book. Listen to their podcasts. Follow their story.
Ask yourself if you feel they could understand you, support you, and challenge you. At the end of the day, if you don’t feel aligned with your support team, they won’t likely be able to support you.
Don’t just pay for the cheapest one, the therapist down the street, or the first one that pops up in your online search.
Your marriage deserves its best chance at making it work.
Why couples therapy with us works
We’ve created a simple, 3-step couples therapy program
We are a husband and wife team of couples therapists who work with each of you as individuals and as a couple to help you save your marriage.
We offer a unique kind of couples therapy program:
1.
Neutral Mediation
The Golden Marriage Method prevents blaming, resentment, and guilt through a proven process. We help you move forward with shared values and a common vision. A successful relationship is not about being right; it’s about being better together - in unity. We are on the side of the marriage and are all for the health of the family.
2.
Daily Accountability
We keep both of you accountable to yourselves, each other, and your family - daily (not just once in a while). We challenge you, support you, and remind you of your goals and vision for your golden marriage. We send emails, have meetings, and communicate regularly with both of you as individuals and as a couple, so that you can stay on track together.
3.
Holistic Mentorship
We do not just teach the principles of the Golden Marriage Method; we live by them. We believe that a golden marriage is attainable through a heartfelt intention to connect mind, body, and soul with your partner. We share both husband and wife perspectives and experiences. This goes beyond talk therapy and requires physical exercise, emotional connection, and spiritual growth on a guided journey.
A Unique Couples Therapy Approach
For saving marriages on the brink of divorce
What is the success rate of couples therapy?
The success rate of couples therapy depends on you, your partner, and your couples therapist.
When you both go through this journey with tremendous faith, the right guidance, and the right path, it’s inevitable that your marriage will become golden again.
Having the right couples therapist is the key here.
When you do it alone, you can’t see your own blind spots and you end up relying on each other to fix the problems that you’ve both created. You end up blaming each other and accusing the other person for not doing his or her part.
Doing random couples therapy sessions without the practical implementation of mental, physical, and emotional exercises won’t work either.
Would you attempt to climb Mount Everest without a map and a guide who has climbed the mountain before? Would you really depend solely on hoping and praying while taking shots in the dark?
Would you go to the gym and do random exercises, thinking that you could become a pro tennis player?
You get the point.
We are 100% confident in our Couples Therapy Program
It’s called The Golden Marriage Method ™. Will it work for you? We don’t know.
Let’s book a FREE Golden Marriage Breakthrough Call and find out together.
But before you book this call, you must know that we only offer these calls to couples who we believe will actually be successful.
Couples who are successful with our couples therapy program are:
Committed to making their marriage better
When you think you know everything about your partner and your marriage, then you’re not open and you’re not coachable. Successful couples are open to being guided with a tried and true method that works, even if they’ve tried other things before
Coachable and open-minded on how to heal the relationship
When you think you know everything about your partner and your marriage, then you’re not open and you’re not coachable. Successful couples are open to being guided with a tried and true method that works, even if they’ve tried other things before
Growth-oriented and want to create a happy and healthy future
Couples who focus on the past aren’t able to have a successful marriage. You can’t really get to where you want to go by staring only at the rearview mirror.
Empowered with the right attitude
If you are willing to be accountable to yourself, your marriage, your partner, and your family, your marriage has a great chance of success!